WHEN 11-year-old Lizzie family returned home from France
last' summer they left behind one very important thing - Lizzie.
She stayed on, living as part of a French family for six
months and learning a new culture and a new, language. Now- she's back,
self-assured, bilingual and accompanied by her new `sister' Morgane Even, who
will spend the next six months in Sheffield.
The swap has been organised by ALLEF, a non-profit-making
charity which arranges six-month exchanges between English and French children
aged eight to 11.
It's an opportunity to become immersed in another culture,
to experience France as a native rather than as a tourist and to become fluent
in the language. But the prospect of leaving a much-loved child among strangers
for six months is not one easily undertaken by most parents.
"It was difficult, particularly for her mum," admits dad
Martin Hughes. "But we were reassured because we'd gone through a fairly robust
process to get her there, the family seemed very nice and welcoming and we knew
it was only for six months."
Lizzie's big adventure began after she met an ALLEF
`graduate' and made up her mind she wanted to try the experience herself.
After filling in detailed forms, going through official
police checks and a lengthy interview process, the family were matched with
their counterparts in Vannes, Britanny, and the exchange was set in motion.
There was no time for a trial visit, so in August Lizzie set
off to meet her new `family' - and four days later her dad, mum Cherry and six
year-old brother Sam returned home, leaving her behind.
"The girls liked each other immediately. They both enjoy art
and craft and they had booked Lizzie in for a kayaking course at the big lagoon
near their home, so they had quite a lot in common."
Weekly phone calls reassured Martin and Cherry that Lizzie
was settling in: "I think homesickness was a problem at first but, that's
expected for the first couple of months. Once the language picked up she was
fine."
Visits are strongly discouraged, so Lizzie spent her
eleventh birthday and Christmas with her new family and excitement mounted as
the date for her return approached.
She finally arrived home in Nether Edge last week: "It's
great to have her back - and to hear her talking French like a native. I'd
forgotten what a brilliant kid she was," says Martin, proudly.
And four days later 11-year-old Morgane arrived to start her
six month stay in Sheffield.
Morgane has already made new friends at Hunters Bar Junior
School, has signed up with Lizzie for the Sheffield Music Service choir and is
looking forward to a family holiday in London and a camp with the local
Woodcraft Folk.
"Certainly Morgane's English is better than Lizzie's French
was but she's very hesitant. "No doubt that will soon change once she gets used
to living in England," says Martin.
"This system wouldn't be right for every child but it's
certainly worked for Lizzie and she'll probably draw on it for the rest of her
life."
Sheffield Telegraph March 2003 |